Online & In Person · 18+
💞Find People Who
Match Your Positions
The goal is simple — find your position with other people, in the positions you can physically do. This page shows you exactly where to find them: dating apps, communities, and real-world adventures.
Find Your Most Comfortable Positions
Before you can find someone who matches you, you need to know what you’re looking for. Use this community-built spreadsheet to explore positions, understand what fits your body and comfort level, and figure out exactly what you want before you start reaching out.
Once you know your positions, everything below becomes ten times easier — you’ll know exactly what to say in your bio, in your DMs, and in person.
The Position Finder Spreadsheet
Browse the full list, mark what you’re comfortable with, and use it as your reference when matching with new people. No guesswork — just honest self-knowledge.
Open the Position Sheet →Match Online, Meet In Person
The fastest way to find someone open to the same positions you are is to go where people openly list exactly that. These platforms let you filter for chemistry, intent, and compatibility before you ever say hello.
Feeld
The dating app built for open-minded singles and couples. List your interests, kinks, and preferences up front — everyone here is looking to connect honestly about what they want.
Join Feeld → 💙Facebook Dating
Built right into the Facebook app you already use. Free to use, easy to set up, and a massive pool of local singles already looking to connect.
Set Up Facebook Dating →Learn From Real Communities
Apps get you matches — communities get you wisdom. These are the places where people openly discuss experiences, share advice, and help you figure out what works before you ever meet anyone in person.
FetLife
The largest kink and lifestyle social network on the internet. Find local events, join groups for specific interests, and connect with people in your area who share your exact preferences.
Explore FetLife → 🧡r/Seduction
Millions of members sharing practical advice on attraction, conversation, confidence, and how to actually connect with people — online and in person.
Read r/Seduction → 🤍r/OnlineDating
Real experiences with every dating app out there. Learn which platforms work, how to write a profile that gets matches, and what to expect from each community.
Read r/OnlineDating →Jump Into The Conversation
Dating apps start the conversation — live communities keep it going. Join the Swing Society Discord to connect with real people, find local meetups, and meet members of Eurogirlsescort and lifestyle communities where people actually show up in person.
The Swing Society Discord
An active community of people who actually meet — including members you’ll recognize from Eurogirlsescort communities and lifestyle events. Introduce yourself, find locals, and turn online conversations into real-world connections.
Join The Society →Prefer private one-on-one sessions instead? Book a private instructor →
Take It From Chat To Real Life
Online matching is only step one. Lifestyle cruises like Temptation put thousands of openminded, like-minded people on one ship — pool parties, theme nights, and workshops designed specifically to help people connect in person. This is where your online matches become real-world memories.
See what the cruise experience is really like
🌊Test This Week’s Position
Every week we drop a new one. Check it against the position sheet, practice at home — then find someone who’s down to try it with you using everything above.
Practice before you match
👀Where online matches become real memories
🔥Your Match Is
Out There
Know your positions. Join the communities. Start the conversation. The rest takes care of itself.
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